Now, let me start off this post by stating that I am not a single woman with 10 cats, blaming my distaste for this holiday on the fact that I cannot find a man. I am happily engaged to my fiance that I’ve been with for almost 5 years. We have spent several holidays together, including 4 Valentine’s Days, and we have enjoyed each and every single one of them. But, we are a young couple so those Valentine’s Days did begin when we were teenagers, with dinner & a movie, etc.
After being engaged and growing up, this year I just really don’t see the point in Valentine’s Day.
Yes, it’s a fun day to spend with your sweetie, but are all the hearts and flowers and candy really necessary?
Keep in mind, I do work in retail, so I see everything that people buy for their significant others and guess what. I really am judging you for buying your girlfriend a $60 teddy bear and a $40 candy heart.
I understand that you’re young and in love, wanting to impress your girlfriend of a whole whopping 2 months, but I see grown men doing this too! Think about it, you just spent $100 (or more..) on stuff that your significant other really doesn’t need, for a holiday that’s not even a real holiday.
This is just my opinion, but I absolutely do not see the point anymore. My perfect Valentine’s Day has nothing to do with candy hearts or flowers or a fancy dinner. My perfect Valentine’s Day would just be a night in, cuddling with my man, watching a movie marathon. No need for flashy jewelry, expensive plates, or overpriced candy.